USED TO BE VALENTINES

Used to Be Valentines turns nostalgia, heartbreak, and growing pains into explosive pop punk anthems for the romantics, the overthinkers, and anyone still trying to make peace with the past. Blending the heart-on-sleeve energy of late ’90s pop punk with the emotional weight of 2000s emo and alternative rock, the band combines soaring vocal hooks, massive drums, and melodic guitar riffs with lyrics about sleepless nights, missed chances, overanalyzed texts, and memories that refuse to fade.

Up the Creek Records Show June 13th, 2026

UPCOMING SHOW

Up the Creek Records Show

JUNE 13th, 2026

A man singing into a microphone on stage with a dark background illuminated by red lighting, wearing a black cap with a skull and heart design and the words 'Used to Be Valentines.'
A man singing into a microphone on stage with a dark background illuminated by red lighting, wearing a black cap with a skull and heart design and the words 'Used to Be Valentines.'
A poster for an event titled 'Used To Be Valentines' features a photo of a young woman with green and black hair wearing red boots and black clothing, sitting on a park bench next to a man with a beard, wearing a black and red cap and jacket, in a park with trees in the background. The poster includes event details: June 13th, 6-9 PM, at 2042 Mt. Diablo Blvd, open to all ages, with a $15 sliding scale donation.
Two young people, one male with a beard and the other female with green and black hair, standing together behind a sign on a chain-link fence. The sign has red and white text that reads 'USED TO BE VALENTINES' and other partially visible words.

USED TO BE VALENTINES

Blending explosive pop punk energy with raw vulnerability, “Don’t Call Me Baby” captures the tension of trying to let go of someone who still feels emotionally tangled in your life. Trading lines back and forth like an unresolved conversation, Rachel and Niels bring both confrontation and chemistry to the song — balancing massive hooks, driving guitars, and cathartic emotion with the kind of honesty that feels equally made for late-night overthinking and screaming along in a packed room.

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Two young adults sitting on a park bench surrounded by greenery. The woman has green and black hair, wears headphones, black and red clothing, and bright red platform shoes. The man has dark hair, a beard, and wears a baseball cap, a varsity jacket, and dark clothing.
A man with a beard in a red baseball cap and a woman with green hair and a piercing, sitting on a park bench in front of a chain-link fence with trees in the background. The man holds a baseball bat resting on his shoulder, and the woman sits with her arm around him, wearing a black and red dress, black boots with red laces, and fishnet stockings. The woman’s hand on her knee has the word "LOST" tattooed on her fingers.
A man and woman dressed in alternative fashion sitting on a park bench outdoors during daytime. The woman has green and black hair, multiple facial piercings, and wears black and red platform boots, a black dress with red accents, and fishnet stockings. The man has a beard, wears a gray letterman jacket, red shirt, and a black cap. They pose with serious expressions, with the woman seated and the man leaning on her shoulder, holding a baseball bat.

Love songs for the romantics, the wrecked, and the ones still growing up.

Used to Be Valentines is a Bay Area pop punk/emo band fronted by Niels Sorensen and Rachel Lynch, transforming nostalgia, heartbreak, and restless late nights into cathartic anthems for anyone caught between who they were and who they’re becoming.

Used to Be Valentines blends the urgency of late ’90s pop punk with the emotional weight of 2000s emo and alternative rock, pairing soaring vocal hooks, massive drums, and melodic guitar riffs with lyrics about missed chances, sleepless nights, overanalyzed texts, and memories that never fully let go. Their debut album, The Good Years, explores reckless youth, longing, and the romantic chaos of “what if,” while the upcoming follow-up, Growing Pains, turns inward — confronting nostalgia, accountability, identity, and the difficult process of moving forward. Known for high-energy live shows that balance emotional vulnerability with explosive performance, Used to Be Valentines creates music for the healers, the spiralers, and anyone still learning how to let go without losing themselves.

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